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Sigh.
First, I just want you to prepare yourself before we get to the deep stuff. I’m about to share my shameful, horrible spending habits & screen shots of my budget with you. We’re that close, right? We can talk about those things? And you won’t call me a fool for spending a stupid amount of money at restaurants in a month? Mkay. Good.
Today, the last of our tax related forms came in the mail. Last year, for the very first time, we actually owed taxes. I finally realized why people had always complained about them. Needless to say, it left a bad taste in my mouth, so I wasn’t sure whether or not I wanted to jump right in to preparing them tonight or not. A refund would be fab, but what if we owe again this year?? Just thinking about it makes me have complete stress kittens.
In related news, Hubs and I set down together this evening to go over our budget {wow, I feel so old… tax talk, now budget crap?} Technically, we created a budget last April when I made a completely gorgeous & detailed spreadsheet that would have us on our way to saving up our millions in no time! Unforch, we’ve maybe opened said spreadsheet a total of four times since I made it. It’s still pretty.
Obvi, the spreadsheet thing didn’t really work for us.
Sometime in July, we decided to take another approach with some budget program so that we could at least see where our money was being spent. Sounded like a good idea on paper. Well, I’ll just tell you right now – it only works if you actually log in and keep an eye on it after you set up your account. Which we did not.
Finally… FINALLY… around September we decided {again} to at least categorize our spending to see how much was going where. And finally, I decided to add it to my weekly {daily would be a stretch} to-do list that I would set down every Friday and make sure that each transaction was in the correct category.
Success! I DID IT! Go me! :: pat on the back ::
Also, huge fail.
No one should spend that much on dining out each month. Can I be candid with you? I mean, we’re all friends here, right? This is our “dining out” slice of the pie chart from last month…
At least with the dining out, hubs and I are both to blame. When it comes to the coffee shop spending? That’s all on me.
From September through the end of the year, I spent an average of $60 per month at coffee shops.
Here’s December. Note that I went to starbucks THREE times on the 20th. Sheesh.
Yeah.
According to the little chart in my account, the US average is just over $20 per month on coffee shops.
I need an intervention.
Because of our extreme spending on things like restaurants and Starbucks, we were happy to partake in the Eat In Month challenge this month. We did have a few breaks on the weekends, but as of today, I’m happy to report that we’ve only spent $54 on dining out this month. Huge difference. And we only have a handful of days left in the month. Woo! Go us!
Thankfully, my sister gave me a Keurig for Christmas, which has dramatically decreased my dependency on baristas and has cut my Starbucks spending to a slim little $7.19 this month {I had to try the trenta- don’t judge.}
When I started working from home nearly two years ago, we agreed that I would take over the family finances. Well, we see exactly how that worked out. I know I said I don’t “do” new year resolutions, but I was pretty determined to start this year off spending more responsibly and being less frivolous. It’s all part of the cant’s, can’s, dreams & plans I talked about on Monday…. I need some organization in my life; some definitive plans and goals. Which means I also need ways to measure them. So far, so good. I can do this, right?
Oh, and, P.S. – I gave in and did my taxes. REFUND! I’m going to give some to the church, put some in savings, and pay a bill or two. And go to Starbucks. And buy a new pair of shoes. I’m going to need a bigger refund.











