Oops. I spent the grocery money on lattes again.

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Sigh.

First, I just want you to prepare yourself before we get to the deep stuff. I’m about to share my shameful, horrible spending habits & screen shots of my budget with you. We’re that close, right? We can talk about those things? And you won’t call me a fool for spending a stupid amount of money at restaurants in a month? Mkay. Good.

Today, the last of our tax related forms came in the mail. Last year, for the very first time, we actually owed taxes. I finally realized why people had always complained about them. Needless to say, it left a bad taste in my mouth, so I wasn’t sure whether or not I wanted to jump right in to preparing them tonight or not. A refund would be fab, but what if we owe again this year?? Just thinking about it makes me have complete stress kittens.

In related news, Hubs and I set down together this evening to go over our budget {wow, I feel so oldtax talk, now budget crap?} Technically, we created a budget last April when I made a completely gorgeous & detailed spreadsheet that would have us on our way to saving up our millions in no time! Unforch, we’ve maybe opened said spreadsheet a total of four times since I made it. It’s still pretty.

Obvi, the spreadsheet thing didn’t really work for us.

Sometime in July, we decided to take another approach with some budget program so that we could at least see where our money was being spent. Sounded like a good idea on paper. Well, I’ll just tell you right now – it only works if you actually log in and keep an eye on it after you set up your account. Which we did not.

Finally… FINALLY… around September we decided {again} to at least categorize our spending to see how much was going where. And finally, I decided to add it to my weekly {daily would be a stretch} to-do list that I would set down every Friday and make sure that each transaction was in the correct category.

Success! I DID IT! Go me! :: pat on the back ::

Also, huge fail.

No one should spend that much on dining out each month. Can I be candid with you? I mean, we’re all friends here, right? This is our “dining out” slice of the pie chart from last month…

At least with the dining out, hubs and I are both to blame. When it comes to the coffee shop spending? That’s all on me.

From September through the end of the year, I spent an average of $60 per month at coffee shops.

Here’s December. Note that I went to starbucks THREE times on the 20th. Sheesh.

Yeah.

According to the little chart in my account, the US average is just over $20 per month on coffee shops.

I need an intervention.

Because of our extreme spending on things like restaurants and Starbucks, we were happy to partake in the Eat In Month challenge this month. We did have a few breaks on the weekends, but as of today, I’m happy to report that we’ve only spent $54 on dining out this month. Huge difference. And we only have a handful of days left in the month. Woo! Go us!

Thankfully, my sister gave me a Keurig for Christmas, which has dramatically decreased my dependency on baristas and has cut my Starbucks spending to a slim little $7.19 this month {I had to try the trenta- don’t judge.}

When I started working from home nearly two years ago, we agreed that I would take over the family finances. Well, we see exactly how that worked out. I know I said I don’t “do” new year resolutions, but I was pretty determined to start this year off spending more responsibly and being less frivolous. It’s all part of the cant’s, can’s, dreams & plans I talked about on Monday…. I need some organization in my life; some definitive plans and goals. Which means I also need ways to measure them. So far, so good. I can do this, right?

Oh, and, P.S. – I gave in and did my taxes. REFUND! I’m going to give some to the church, put some in savings, and pay a bill or two. And go to Starbucks. And buy a new pair of shoes. I’m going to need a bigger refund.

Have any fantastic money management tips to share??

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About Lindsay

Lindsay is the chic geek behind Designer Wife, a blog dedicated to her attempts at designing a healthy, balanced & beautiful life. She's an espresso addict {decaf}, frequent flier, proud Starbucks Gold Card member, and social butterfly. When she's not blogging her entire life story, she works as a freelance writer, designer and amateur photographer. She and Designer Husband live in the beautiful Queen City; Charlotte, North Carolina.

  • http://www.lifeaccordingtojaime.com Jaime

    I don’t remember the last time I visited a Starbucks (maybe in December I got a drink while grocery shopping? It was either December or November.) But I’m also not addicted to coffee – only like super-sweet coffee drinks, and those aren’t really coffee. :)

    Several years ago, when we decided to work on getting out of debt, my husband read the Dave Ramsey books and started the envelope system – paying most everything with cash. While we only have the house debt now, I still go the cash-only route. Everything is categorized, and when my “social” money is gone, I’m done doing costly things for fun…at least until the next pay check. It’s worked for us, and at the end of the month I divide whatever is leftover into savings and something fun. :)

  • Brittney

    Hola Lindsay! I just recently started reading your blog (I guess you could say lurking since this is my first time commenting) but anywho, I’ve always been TERRIBLE at keeping track of my finances. I tried the spreadsheet, and um yeah didn’t even really get started with it. But I have found a website that has changed my life! You actually may already use it because the graphs you have look similar, but I’ll tell you anyways. It’s mint.com. It’s been around for a long time I guess, I just now had the guts to actually take notice of what I’m spending. It does basically EVERYTHING for you. It’s so handy/ scary because sometimes I don’t want to see how much I’ve gone over budget on drinking, but it gets the point across. Hopefully this helps!

    Brittney

  • http://twitter.com/onegirlideas onegirlideas

    Its nice to know that not just me spends way to much at Coffee shops every month! Congrats for only spending $7 last month. The one thing I could never cut would be my coffee. Though last year I spent over $300 on purses and this year only $100 That was my goal! Ya me! and Ya you!

  • Kara Gray

    I love my Keurig!!! It has saved me so much money but doesn’t help that there is a starbucks on the way to my floor at the hospital…what website are you using to track your finances? Rich and I are trying to do that since we just bought a house. Love your blog!!!

  • Nicole

    Don’t feel bad about spending that much on eating out…my husband and I’s budget looks about the same as yours-you’re not the only one! And the coffee isn’t bad! You only spent $15/week, which doesn’t even amount to one every day. If that’s going to be the difference between being happy and feeling like you have to save every penny, I say SPLURGE and have as much coffee as you want :) Just being aware of how much you spend in each category per month will help you save…sounds like you’re already doing a good job of it.

  • http://www.makingitworkmom.com Making It Work Mom

    We are constantly trying to get a handle on where all the money went! Unfortunately with a family of 5 ours is not spent on fun things like eating out, but an obscene amount an groceries! It is not a lot of fun to spend over $300 each week in the grocery store. We are doing our best to cut back, though! Good luck on your “budgeting”.

  • http://www.shortcuttobliss.com Erin (Shortcut to Bliss)

    I totally feel you on the family of 5 business… We were spending an OUTRAGEOUS amount on groceries. This month I challenged myself to meal plan the entire month ahead of time. We have saved a little over $500 dollars this month. It has been insane. I feel like someone handed me 500 bucks and said have a good time.

  • http://www.christytomes.com Christy Tomes

    No budget tips, but I feel your pain. I’m impressed you’ve kept the dining-in challenge going this long – big kudos to you guys!

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    I know, right?! I *never* thought we could cut out or habit of eating at restaurants so much. It’s not that we don’t like fixing food at home – we just love trying new locally owned places often, it’s like a hobby with us!

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    That’s an incredible amount to save! Good job! :)

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Thanks! good luck to you as well! We can do this! :)

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Isn’t the Keurig the best thing ever?! Except, now I’m drinking like three times the amount of coffee as before because it’s just SO easy.. and always there! We’re using Mint.com to track everything – it’s completely free and the best budgeting software I’ve ever used in my LIFE! Highly recommend it! And, it has a free iPhone app, which I find really useful.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    I know, I just can’t give up coffee. I’ve tried – but I like it too much. Way to go with sticking to the purse spending limit! :)

  • Em

    No tips, just reassurance. $60 on Starbucks? Not bad. I’m “cutting back” so that we can save money and all that crap. My *new* budget is $50/month. Which I will be paying by iPod. Awesomeness.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Hi Brittney! Welcome! Yep, Mint.com is actually exactly what I’ve been using and what the little screenshots are from. It helps SO much, doesn’t it? I would have never had any idea how much money we were just blowing through had we not tracked it on here. Thanks so much for the comment and for sharing a tip! :)

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Hubs actually just bought one of the Dave Ramsey books recently and is working through it. His website has a wealth of good info, too! Thanks for the tip, Jaime! :)

  • Toby Tucker

    We eat out alot too. I live in a pretty cheap area (as in cost of living expenses) and we will spend anywhere from $400-$800 on eating out every month. I almost broke down when I was doing the figures for our accountant. BUT we need all the tax write-offs we can get since Chad has his own business. I am only hoping that when I get a bigger house with a bigger kitchen I will cook more; I don’t like cooking in a small space with no room.

  • Madhur_devi

    I have the same love(s) Starbucks and eating out. I have learned that moderation is the key. I have Starbucks take out a certain amount of money from my checking account monthly ($20). It goes into a Starbucks Card and everytime I go to Starbucks-that is the card I use (so no cash, credit or debit card) With eating out, I go to sites such as blackboarddeals.com or yelp.com and several others and see what the daily specials are. If, I like it I purchase the voucher and take it in to the restaurant. It lets me try new places without paying full price. The discount tends to be anywhere from 30%-50% off. It usually is for 2 people.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Nice! Thanks for the link – I love yelp, but had no idea about the daily specials! :)

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    A bigger kitchen does make a huge difference! When we first moved to Charlotte, our first place that was “temporary” until we found a more permanent place had the worlds tiniest kitchen. I think we cooked one meal in there before saying screw it and eating out for an entire three months.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    $60 really isn’t that bad – I’m down from the one time I spent $300 in July of 2009 (we lived in a condo directly above Starbucks – pure torture!)

  • Em

    That would be torture.

  • Anonymous

    Haha you always crack me up. What program did you use to categorize your spending? It’s pretty & I must use it. Even though I don’t actually manage {or acknowledge} our budget.

  • Anonymous

    Just saw your lower comment about it being Mint. Sweet. I’m off to check it out. :)

  • http://www.nolonger25.com Jade @ No Longer 25

    We also did this a few years ago, broke down all our spending into categories. It was shocking how much we spent on food, a lot of that was meals out but we were wasting a lot of food too. Since I started weekly meal planning and going to the supermaket with a list, we’ve been spending a lot less.

    We still eat out because it’s fun and you don’t have dished! But we use a lot of vouchers and deals and often have coffee and pudding at home instead.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Meal planning has helped us tremendously, too! I don’t think we’ll ever stop eating out completely – we really enjoy it so much, so we’re just compromising on HOW much we enjoy it :)

  • http://pepperscraps.com Pepper

    Don’t worry it’s even worse when you work right next door to starbucks!! It’s terrible. I really try and go and get a water, but that new skinny carmel machiatto seriously begs for me to buy it!!

    What are you using to do your budget? We keep meaning to set up our Mint.com acct, but it’s the last thing on our todo list right now.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Oh, believe me, I’ve lived that story – Our condo building had a starbucks on the ground floor. Talk about convenience, I would just walk down in my pajamas every morning and then right back up to my living room. Those were the months when I would easily spend $300/month there.

    We use Mint.com! The little screen shots on this blog post are all from my Mint account – its super easy and I love it!

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