About

Mostly, I just stand around being fantastic.

Hi! I’m Lindsay…

…a twenty-something city girl through the week and a back-to-her-roots country girl on the weekends. I’m thrilled to now be able to call myself a “mom-to-be” {squeeee!!} I have no idea how to cook, but I enjoy fine food & eating well. I once got in to {and lost} a fight with my vacuum cleaner on the stairs, but I adore a spotless house. I seem to always shrink my husband’s work clothes in the laundry and I still don’t know how to properly iron, but my wardrobe must always be hung in seasonal order and by color.

I’m trying to learn how to be a good housewife, promise.

For 19 months, my husband and I battled infertility, a scary, dangerous, and devastating pregnancy loss, tons of testing, and failed treatments. By the grace of God, we’re now happily expecting our newest family member this September!

Are you an internet addict, too? Find me on twitter, facebook, & pinterest.

Keep in touch? You can get my blog posts emailed to you either daily or at the end of the week, in a nice little week-in-a-day format. Additionally, I send out a pretty fantastic newsletterthat you can get, too. It’s always fun, I promise!

What the blog?

Right now, I enjoy blogging about daily life, adventures, decorating/design, discovering my faith, food, and photography.

*Update: Now that I’m pregnant, you can bet your bottoms that there’ll be a whole lotta baby blogging going on ’round here. 

 

Back in 2009, I started this blog when I did what I call the “reverse Green Acres.” Hubs and I sold our home in the beautiful countryside and moved south to the Queen City; Charlotte, NC {I just adore a penthouse view!} When we moved, I was really, really homesick. I coped with this by staying in touch with everyone as much as I could. Sending massive amounts of emails and photos to keep in touch with all of our family got a little out of control – I tend to be chatty and take a gazillionteen photos a day, so it was decided that a blog would be a better idea than blowing up everyone’s inbox with photos over every single meal I had eaten that day. I liked blogging. I even had a regular LiveJournal from back in the high school days during the late 90′s. Before that, I kept a regular diary since middle school {still have them all}

So, the blog was, at first, completely private and only had a few readers in our family. Finally, I got bored and frustrated that no one seemed to care too much about all of my fascinating daily adventures and cat photos, so I made the blog public. Still, no one seemed interested. Since then, the blog has taken on many looks and went through tons of transformations. “They” {you know, the blog gods} say that your blog should have a niche, a certain topic of expertise. I tried that.   Designer Wife is a blog about life. Mostly, I just stand around being fantastic.

When I was five years old, my mom always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down “happy.” They told me that I didn’t understand the assignment and I told them they didn’t understand life.

Let’s make a list.

So, why the name Designer Wife?  When we moved to Charlotte, I was working as a freelance designer *and* working through our first year as newlyweds. Designer Wife just fit. Also, it fit in to my mission to design a healthy, balanced & beautiful life. Win/win. How am I designing this kind of life? Basically, I try to follow things like…

  • never taking a single day for granted
  • fueling my body with amazingly delicious REAL foods
  • surrounding myself with beautiful things and people
  • always making time for myself to relax and renew
  • realizing dreams and setting goals
  • laughing at life
  • reading the Bible
  • letting others know how much I love them
  • never taking myself too seriously
  • capturing memories in photo
  • doing more good
  • wearing cute shoes
  • everything in moderation

 

The list is always growing and adapting right along with me.

  • maeohhmay

    I've just started reading your blog and I love it! You are so cute and I can't wait to read more.
    Your bake sale treat sounds awesome! I may have to go grab my credit card!! :-P

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay Maddox

    Oh, thank you so much! Always love to hear from new readers!! Everything listed on the bake sale just looks amazing! I've bid on SOOOO many things already, LOL

  • http://www.spottedturkey.com/ lynn

    sooooo love your blog design (best i've seen so far). Wish I had the talent to design something but alas…will just stick to marketing and writing. Keep up the inspirational design!

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay Maddox

    Thank you SO much, that's so sweet of you! I enjoy playing around with the design… I don't think my blog has ever looked the same for more than 4 weeks at a time, haha. Enjoy the weekend!

  • http://www.theblueeyedrunner.blogspot.com/ Keri

    Hello! I just found your blog through lady bloggers and I look forward to reading more! I am with you on the starbucks and reading. I spend a ton of money on books and coffee…

  • http://lighterportions.com/ Kristie

    Loving your site and YOU! You seem like such an interesting person and your joie de vie is so refreshing! I'm going to keep perusing around, you have so much interesting stuff on here :) And the whole layout is lovely!

  • KEB316

    I'm still pretty new to the blogging world so when I can, I browse for fun and fitness blogs. We have alot of things in common with fitness, loving the outdoors, and clean eating. I'm excited that I came across yours and I look forward to reading more.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay Maddox

    Hey there & welcome!! Glad to have you here :)

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay Maddox

    Hey there & welcome!! Glad to have you here :)

  • http://twitter.com/itshowsherolls Gina Newberry

    Lindsay you are just CUTE!! Love your blog! Have I said that already! Well, I really do!!

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay Maddox

    Aw, Gina, thank you SO much! I'm absolutely enjoying your blog to pieces right now! Still have it up in another tab :)

  • http://twitter.com/itshowsherolls Gina Newberry

    Lindsay you are just CUTE!! Love your blog! Have I said that already! Well, I really do!!

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay Maddox

    Aw, Gina, thank you SO much! I'm absolutely enjoying your blog to pieces right now! Still have it up in another tab :)

  • http://twitter.com/projectfeelgood Laura Elliott

    Hi Lindsay, what a great bio – refreshing. Makes me want to read more :-) Love the way you describe your goal of designing a healthy, balanced and beautiful life. Looking forward to reading more.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Laura, those compliments were just so kind! Thank you SO much – hoping to keep writing stuff that you'll find refreshing :)

  • http://bjwpost.wordpress.com Barbara Walker

    Well Lindsay I love your blog and although I do not know you, I enjoy your rantings, musings and late night blogs about yourself and other fascinating things. I also love the tone, great humor in women is hard to find. So from one fitness freak, professional surfer hopeful and childhood dream veterinarian, I wish you the best. And YES, thank-you for blogging ;]~ See you in my email.

    Cheers,
    -Barbi

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    OMG I LOVE YOU! Thanks so much for the kind words, truly made my day! That’s amazing that you’re on your way to being a pro surfer – if we lived closer to the ocean, I’d be ALL over that!

    So glad to have you here :)

  • Melissa

    Found your blog through BlogFrog and so glad I did. I really enjoy everything I have read so far and I can’t wait to read more! New follower right here :-)

    Melissa
    http://thechroniclesofarookiemom.blogspot.com/

  • Adrienne

    Ok, I’m interested. :) Going to look around a bit. I’ve decided to visit my followers. huh? There’s an idea! Thanks for following. :)

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Haha, thanks for looking around, Adrienne!! Hope you find some more interesting stuff :)

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    So glad to have you here, Melissa!! :)

  • http://getrealfit.blogspot.com Lynn

    Boy you sure did branch out from a private blog. How fun! I’m a dog freak too. I have Yorkies that keep me sane. I’m new to SITS and Blogfrog but am starting to get it…I think…well getting closer? Okay I’m trying. Thanks for being one of my Twitter friends too. I don’t have that down either LOL but I’m old so that’s my excuse. I’m come from the “but I’ll break it” generation.

  • http://twitter.com/jessann20 Jessica Nagy

    This is awesome!! I came across this website on twitter and I think it’s so fun!! I will definately be following this blog!

  • http://happytalesblog.com/ Allison @ Happy Tales

    Oh. My. Goodness. I am so glad that I’ve come across your blog, and your FB page… and your Twitter. We were destined to be friends!! We have so manyyyy of the same interests and I feel like I can totally relate to you! Love love love your little furbabies. I’m completely obsessed with mine (i mean hey, I named my blog after her…no biggie). And Um, also…. do we live in the same city!?!!?!

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    YAY! I swear the blogosphere has led me to being friends with some of the most ahhmazing people on this earth. And, Charlotte is like the epicenter for ahhhmazin’ bloggers! :)

  • Daphne

    Liiindsay! I love your blog, you’re so talented and so cute :) by the way: my name is Daphne haha :D

  • http://twitter.com/thecre8tivemom Denise Pinion

    Hi! I am new to the blog world and found you on SITS. I am def. gonna follow you! Love your blog!

    http://thecre8tivemom.com

  • http://twitter.com/thecre8tivemom Denise Pinion

    Hi! Found your blog on SITS. I am a fairly new blogger and trying to find interesting people to follow that I have a common interest with. Love your blog! Going to follow!

    http://thecre8tivemom.com

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Hi Denise! Welcome and thanks so much for following! :)

  • Divinepainter

    LOVE your list of how to design (and define) your life! Happy SITS Day.

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Thank you so, so much!! :)

  • CK

    Love it! GREAT blog {and life} design ;)
    -CK

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Thank yoooou! <3

  • http://www.studioalcantara.com Marilenn Alcantara

    Stopping by from SITS! I want to read the vacuum story and I love, love, my pom too!

  • Nicole @MTDLBlog

    Love your blog! Found you through your SITS feature. We have a few things in common :-) I’ll be back!

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Thank you, Nicole! :)

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Thanks for visiting today, Marilenn!! :)

  • http://katyloves.com katy { of } katy loves.

    I love this! I laughed at the blog transformations, that’s what happened to me exactly! I did a music one for like..two entries. Then I switched to a running one, then healthy living in general and now I’m at my cozy blog home where I can write anything I want. I hate the “rules”. I think if people like you and your writing then what else do you need? Oh, and my husband and I are moving to Charlotte. I can’t wait!

  • http://www.designerwife.com/ Lindsay {Designer Wife}

    Haha, I’m so happy that I’m not the only one who’s blog went through an identity crisis!! I agree, I hate the “rules” and decided to just let it be a virtual copy of me.

    That’s so exciting that you guys are moving to Charlotte!! There’s an INCREDIBLE community of awesome bloggers in the city. You’ll love it! :)

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